Experiencing adversity can make you a stronger and better person if you accept it as yet another opportunity for growth! Your true character will be revealed not in how you handle your success, but in how you cope with the failures. If you transmute the negative feelings that are only natural to feel after experiencing adversity into a more positive outlook that it is all a lesson, you will realize that ALL experiences, positive and seemingly negative, have found their way into your life to teach you all you need to know in order to accomplish your objective (please pardon the run-on sentence lol.)
Sometimes we are met with situations that are for the purpose of toughening you up! Think of it as a blessing. Giving thanks for all that Life has to offer! Peace!!